Last weekend, I was talking to my brother-in-law who is a jet mechanic and pilot. He told me many of the private jets are up for sale right now, because the super wealthy are concerned about the economy. This got me thinking, if I had hundreds of millions of dollars, would I care about losing a couple million on a jet? More important, would I even want a private jet or hundreds of millions of dollars?
Who Wants to be a Billionaire?
With all of the Facebook IPO fever, it seems like everyone wants to become the next billionaire. For me, that is probably my worst nightmare. I can’t think of anything more stressful than managing a huge financial empire. Sure, I could do a lot of good in the world with that kind of money, but it would come with a lot of personal sacrifices. I can’t imagine needing private security or consulting with lawyers regularly. I can’t imagine everyone wanting something from me. I would much rather fly coach, live in a modest house and own my life.
I bought lottery tickets with a group of people from work and I found myself hoping we didn’t win. I know that sounds ridiculous, but that’s how I felt. Instead of envisioning all of the things I could buy, I started thinking about the media attention and people hounding me. It seemed like more of a problem than a solution. I was glad when someone else finally won.
Truths about Money
Money doesn’t always buy happiness and it can bring misery.
As I was writing this post, I heard the tragic news of the apparent suicide of Junior Seau. It’s too early to speculate whether money problems contributed to his death, but money problems and divorce seem to plague most professional athletes. I remember an interview with Junior many years ago when he spoke about how simple life was when he had little money and drove a Pinto. After becoming successful, he had to worry about his Mercedes getting scratched or stolen. Money can be a blessing and a curse.
No matter how much money some people have, it’s never enough.
One thing I can’t understand about athletes, entertainers, bankers and executives is why they never seem satisfied with their incredibly high incomes. There always seems to be a squabble over the number. Players hold out for an extra million, when they are already making ten. CEOs make more getting fired than ten workers make in their lifetimes. Is it all about ego at some point? Or, do they really feel they need the money? True happiness doesn’t come from a massive paycheck.
Money doesn’t always bring the security people think it will.
One of the things that drive people to accumulate wealth is to provide financial security. In the awesome book The Millionaire Next Door, one of the things discovered that drives successful people is the search for security. The odd thing is that security never becomes assured when someone reaches a certain level of wealth or income. In fact, the leveraged nature of some investments and the uncertainty of business can increase the risk. Peace of mind comes from enjoying our lives. That doesn’t come with a dollar figure.
The Stealth Millionaire
My dream is to become a stealth millionaire. I want to walk around in flip-flops like many of the other millionaires in my town and concern myself with health, happiness, experiences and relationships. The less I have to think and worry about money the happier I will be. I would like to have enough money to fund my life, without controlling it. What’s the sense of rising above the drudgery of employment only to be consumed by managing wealth? True happiness comes from being content with what we have.
The Bottom Line
The bottom line is that everyone has their own dreams and goals when it comes to money. Those dreams may or may not conflict with reality. Be careful what you wish for and consider yourself fortunate.
“Of the billionaires I have known, money just brings out the basic traits in them. If they were jerks before they had money, they are simply jerks with a billion dollars.”
Warren Buffett – American Billionaire
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